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Saturday 26 May 2007

Mother

For those lucky to still be blessed with your Mom,
this is beautiful. For those of us who aren't, this is
even more beautiful.

For those who are moms, you'll love this.


My niece and her daughter,Jadelyn

 

The young mother set her foot on the path of life. "Is this the long way?" she asked.

And the guide said: "Yes, and the way is hard. And you will be old before you reach the end of it.

But the end will be better than the beginning."

My Godmother and her daughter
But the young mother was happy, and she would not
believe that anything could be better than these years. So she
played with her children, and gathered flowers for
them along the way, and bathed them in the clear streams; and
the sun shone on them, and the young Mother cried,
"Nothing will ever be lovelier than this."


Chris and I in the snow at Hogsback 1996

Then the night came, and the storm, and the path was
dark, and the children shook with fear and cold, and the mother
drew them close and covered them with her mantle, and the children said,
"Mother, we are not afraid, for you are near, and no harm can come."


My friends son, Matt has autism and hydrocephalus

And the morning came, and there was a hill ahead, and
the children climbed and grew weary, and the mother was weary.
But at all times she said to the children," A little patience and we are there."
So the children climbed, and when they reached the top
they said, "Mother, we would not have done it without you."

And the mother, when she lay down at night looked up
at the stars and said, "This is a better day than the last, for my
children have learned fortitude in the face of hardness.

Yesterday I gave them courage Today,  I've given them strength."

My best friend Caroline,a mom who PRAYS! and baby Zane

And the next day came strange clouds which darkened
the earth, clouds of war and hate and evil, and the children groped
and stumbled, and the mother said: "Look up. Lift your eyes to the light.

" And the children looked and saw above the clouds
an everlasting glory, and it guided them beyond the
darkness. And that night the Mother said, "This is the best day of all, for
I have shown my children God"


My Mom died 23 yrs ago-our last pic together!

And the days went on, and the weeks and the months and
the years, and the mother grew old and she was little and bent.
But her children were tall and strong, and walked with
courage. And when the way was rough, they lifted her,
for she was as light as a feather; and at last they came to a hill,
and beyond they could see a shining road and golden gates flung wide And
mother said, "I have reached the end of my journey. And now I know the end
is better than the beginning, for my children can
walk alone, and their children after them."


My boys and I

And the children said, "You will always walk with us,
Mother, even when you have gone through the gates."
And they stood and watched her as she went on alone, and the gates
closed afterher.Andthey said: "We cannot see her
but she is with us still. A Mother like ours is more than a memory. She
is a living presence......."




Your Mother is always with you.... She's the whisper
of the leaves as you walk down the street; she's the smell of bleach
in your freshly laundered socks; she's the cool hand
on your brow when you're not well. Your Mother lives
inside your laughter. And she's crystallized in every tear drop.
She's the place you came from, your first home; and
she's the map you follow with every step you take. She's your first love
and your first heartbreak, and nothing on earth can
separate you. Not time, not space... not even death!

I miss my Mom even 23 years later!But she is with me still...in the memories and the characteristics I inherited from her.Don't you just love the "mommy moment" photos I have? Love ya!!!

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

I do love the mommy moment photos! What a sweet entry. Yes, Mother's Day is every day. My mom is still alive, and I didn't understand motherhood until I became one. I discovered a passion in my heart with that baby, and life was never the same for me after that. Becoming a mother means a woman lets go of selfish ways, and learns to put others' needs before her own. It seems to happen automatically with the birth of the baby. Our emotional pains and sorrows intensify, as well as our joys. People take  drugs for such feeling enhancements! And we find out that we can keep going even when our energy levels are low. The rewards in living such a life are many. And it all starts with letting go of being selfish, and the birth of our children.    I loved your entry, Shauneen.bea

Anonymous said...

this is a great entry:) enjoy your weekend

Deb

Anonymous said...

My dearest friend - what a beautiful poem. I have read it before, but with the pictures that you added, it has a new meaning. You have really made it special! Thank you so much for sharing - I love it and I miss you (one of the best moms that I know!!). Luvya, Caroline